As I was browsing the world wide web today, I bumped into this article that caught my attention. The title itself is very intriguing, especially for me who just got married but has no kids yet.
I know, I’ll be a good mother
, it maybe too much responsibility but I know in my heart that I love kids and I would take care of them just like how my parents took care of me
Anyway, take a read on this clipping that I took from MSN.com…
“Certain characteristics make a person more likely to be a good parent,” explains child psychologist Virginia Shiller, PhD, author of Rewards for Kids! Many women naturally develop these qualities over time, she says. But you can actively awaken them now so they’re present should you opt for future mommyhood. We show you how.
A Strong Intuition
Can you tell if your guy is upset via his body lingo? Do you know when a coworker is stressed by a slight change in her expression? Since infants can’t verbalize their feelings, “you’ll have to use indirect cues like these to interpret your baby’s needs,” says Shiller.
Tap in to your intuition by taking a minute to feel people out before they divulge their thoughts, says Los Angeles psychologist Yvonne Thomas, PhD. “You may be surprised by how much your inner voice can reveal.” Then, once you’re a mom, you’ll be picking up the most subtle clues.
A Knack for Nurturing
Women who baby their men and chicks who counsel pals in crises are primed for parenthood. “This demonstrates you’re able to comfort others,” says Shiller. One way to foster your caretaking side: “If a pal seems down, don’t just ask if she’s okay,” suggests Thomas. “Put your arm around her and help her find a solution.”
And to read the entire article, click here